A List of Oral Sex DOs!
Oral sex is a favorite topic of conversations among, well, a lot of people, frankly. What we like, what we don’t like, how to perform a particular manoeuver, why in god’s name would you want to, not want to, etc, etc. I’ve never been privy to a bunch of guys sitting around a kitchen table drinking wine and discussing what it’s like to eat pussy, I have however, witnessed the opposite more than a few times and eating cock is not a subject of conversation I am new to. This might totally be gender biased on my part here, but I feel like women are much more prone and comfortable sharing their insecurities, questions, and good ol’ advice with one another than men are. Grocery store checkouts are lined with magazines with articles telling women “how to please their men” and although Cosmo will never go as far as telling you “how to cradle a man’s balls”, it does make it easier to breach the subject. Seriously, though, I wonder, where do guys get their “how to” information? From one another? Trial and error? Porn? You tell me.
In an effort to equalize the playing field, I’d like a little help from all of you guys and girls in creating a Dos list for Oral Sex whether it’s eating pussy or cock. Basically, what do you like best when you’re on the receiving end. That’s right, what do you like having done to you when someone is between your legs? Go on, I know you can think of a least one thing you would like to had to the list. To start things off, I will list one thing that I like, which will count as number one. Now, number two will have to be posted by you, dear reader, in the comment section. And on and on the list shall go. To make things a little more interesting, I’d also like for you to post one question about oral sex (giving or receiving) that you would like answered by your fellow readers. Only use the reply function in the comment section if you are answering someone’s question, otherwise comment as usual.
(Suddenly, I feel rather shy.)
1. I like it when I’m stroking my clit and my partner will join in and mingle his tongue with my fingers. Alternating between sucking and licking my fingers and my clit.
And my question is…
a. I was reading last night, this book that I had bought when I was 17 or something, titled “Sex tips for straight women from a gay man”, anyhow, at one point they talk about swallowing and how everyone makes a big deal about it, but that in reality no one really cares that much and that guys are just as enthused watching themselves ejaculate. So I was wondering, what is the deal with swallowing? It is as big of a turn on as everyone would have us believe or is it just one of those things that kind of took on a life of its own?
Now, it’s your turn. Don’t be shy. It’s for the good of mankind.